Falling in love is easy. It can happen at a glance, a moment of connection that utterly overwhelms both people in ways that we still don’t fully understand. But keeping love going, particularly after that flash of hungry desire begins to fade, isn’t always so easy. It requires effort and intention. That’s what this sigil speaks to, this statement of keeping the flames of love burning, even when it has gone from uncontrolled wildfire to a more domestic kind of blaze that must be tended in order to burn brightly.
Here’s an interesting thought experiment: Think of the most boring, unimaginative person you can. The duller, the better. Imagine that person being locked in a room with only a table, a chair, a box of crayons, and a coloring book. On the table is a note that reads “Complete the coloring book, and you will be released from this room.” How long do you think it would take for that person — as creatively empty as they appear to be — to stop grumping about their situation and start coloring?
How far into the coloring process could they go before they were forced to make a decidedly creative decision? Is this character’s shirt red or blue? Is does this character have blond or red hair? These are minor creative decisions, but they count. How far into that coloring book would they need to go before they start making riskier decisions based on boredom, rebellion, frustration, or simply a need for novelty?
Would it take an hour before the most creatively bone dry person you can think of starts making legitimate artistic decisions? Two?
What if it wasn’t a coloring book? What if it was a book of Mad Libs? What if it was a pack of Play-Doh? What if the challenge was to create and sing — however badly — a song about a lazy dog? How long would it take even the most artistically shriveled person to free themselves from their captivity?
Not long, right? No one is suggesting that the final products would be very interesting, but they would all be creative in their own way. The resulting works would almost certainly reflect the personality of the person who made them, and the circumstances surrounding their creation. The would be art.
Here’s the thing: We’re all creative. Every one of us. If you remove from that equation the idea that the results of this creativity has to be “good,” being creative is almost as easy as breathing. Tiny children can do “creative” things long before they even master the basics of speech or walking upright. Creativity is so fundamental to the human experience that it’s one of the first parts of our brains to come online.
Tapping into that creativity for its own sake does, however, require focus. It requires setting aside a time to actively be creative. It usually requires some kind of structure or setting — a notebook, some clay, a musical instrument, a story, a stocked kitchen — but that’s it. Anyone can be creative in the right context. All it takes is a willingness to focus.
Creativity isn’t a static state. It’s a process, defined by its ebbs and flows. The more you practice, the better your best becomes. But, more importantly, the better your worst becomes as well. By actively trying to improve your skills, no matter how inelegant or awkward your starting point, you will improve in ways that you might not even be aware of. That’s the sentiment behind this sigil, which was requested by one of our Tumblr followers.
Loving someone over a great distance is always a strain on the human heart. Those seconds, minutes, and hours can wear away at even the strongest of connections, and it’s all too easy for even the most sincere commitment to sour into resentment and frustration at the love you want, but currently can’t have. This sigil, requested by a Tumblr follower, seeks to keep focus on the bigger picture.
A sigil for those who know that insight, wisdom, and creativity can be sparked anywhere, and anywhen.
This is a request from one of our Tumblr followers. It’s a general purpose kind of sigil, useful in countless situations. It’s rarely a bad thing to have the odds stacked a little in your favor.